Sunday, June 16, 2013

Dad, on Father’s Day…(What I feel a Dad Should Be)…

 

A dad is someone that is there, every step of the way, with you on your journey through life.  A man of integrity.  Not someone that did their part in making you but not their part in teaching you.  It takes a special kind of man to be called ‘dad’.

That man that provides for his family.  Loves his family unconditionally.  A man that takes pride in his family and the unity they have.  He is the first man a daughter learns to love and respect.  He is the first man that a son learns what being a man ‘really’ means.

He is a dad in every sense of the word.  Someone that will or has taught  you right from wrong, how to treat someone, how to love unconditionally.  A man that will teach you respect and commitment.  A man that will always be there in the good times and bad times.

Dad is someone that you know will always have your back.  A man that has been in your life to show and teach you all these things.  He is a man that will let you know that it is okay to cry and he will dry your tears when they fall.

A man that will show you how to learn from others in your life.  How to have healthy and loving relationships.  How to throw a ball, ride a bike, and shoot hoops.  He will teach you to skip rocks across the water, how to fish, hunt and the things you need to know about nature.  A dad is someone who will protect you from the evils of this world as long as he can.  A man that will never deny being a dad or a father to you.

He is the one that will teach you about God and how He is the greatest Father of all.  That He is the one a dad looks to for guidance, understanding and unconditional love.  That if you allow, accept God in to your life, all things are possible.  A dad will teach you or teach you to put God first in your life for that is the way things should be.

This is just my idea of what a dad, father, pops is like.  My dad is the man that showed me these things and taught me these things.  Yes, it DOES take a special man to be called dad, father, pops.  A very special man indeed…..

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